The Wedding of Hope and Cheque

It's official. We're married! Cheque and I tied the knot on October 30th, 2011 at 4:00pm in Monterrey, Mexico! Yay! It was an amazing day that I so wish all of you could have been at!  God blessed Cheque and I with every detail of the day. The weather was beautiful and sunny, the flowers fragrant, the guests excited, the food so delicious, the dancing so much fun, but most importantly we sensed God's smile over us:)

My family came in from Ohio and many of Cheque's relatives came from Mexico City. It wasn't just a fun day it was a fun week with people arriving several days before! There was tons of fellowship between the families and so much help as we set up and prepared for the Big Day. 

Here are a few pictures from the wedding. I hope you like them! We are still waiting on the professional pictures, and will put some up when we get them. 

Many thanks to EVERYONE who helped with this day! Thanks for your love, encouragement, support, and friendship! We couldn't have done it without you. 

Flower bouquet and the wedding program

Getting all the buttons done up the back of my dress by my sisters and bridesmaids. 

Mom and I right before the wedding! 

Walking down the isle with dad (Cheque's parents are on the left) 

Our wedding ceremony took place at the Antigua Hacienda de Santiago about 20 min from the B2B property. It had an amazingly beautiful view of the mountains and the lake. 

Cheque and I with the lasso. This is a Mexican wedding tradition. The lasso is draped around the bride and groom during the ceremony to symbolize unity. 

The Kiss! One of my favorite pictures! 

We are pretty excited about being married... as you can see :) 

Me and my silly man! 

Yay! 

Me and my bridesmaids (my 2 sisters and Cheque's 2 sisters)

Cutting the brownie cake. 

Cheque giving me the first bite... and enjoying it :) 

The happy bride and groom :) 

My Family 

Etiquette Class for Jovenes

Before the crazy summer season started some fellow staff members, David and Stacy Whited hosted an etiquette class for some of the teens in the Hope Program.  The class consisted of various sessions where the kids learned about table manners and courtesies that should be shown when out to a nice dinner whether it be a wedding, work event, or a date.

Most of the students in the class had spent the majority of their lives in a childrens’ home before coming into the Back2Back Hope Program, not having many good examples nor chances to practice etiquette. One of our goals with the Hope Program is to prepare our students for life in the ‘real world.’ These students are studying at the highschool and collage levels and when they graduate will most definitely have times where they will need to know proper etiquette.  Sometimes a job interview is nailed by the etiquette skills of the applicant! 

Rodo and Colton folding napkins as we prepared to serve a 3 course meal. 

David and Stacy taught the students how to eat a nice 3 course meal. What each piece of silverware is for, and basic manners on how to cut, chew, eat etc. when in a nice restaurant.    For most of these students this was a first time experience.

I was greatly surprised when later that week I went out to eat with Shannen, a Hope Program student that I disciple. We weren’t at a fancy restaurant or anything, but she was practicing her manners and teaching me a thing or two!

A nicely set table awaiting the teens to arrive...

The etiquette class culminated in a nice three course meal, prepared and served in David and Stacy’s house. Cheque and I and several other staff members were invited to serve the meal as though it was at a real 3 star restaurant.  It was so much fun to serve the teens and even more fun to see what they had learned during the class. All the guys opened the doors for the ladies, pulled out their chairs, and engaged them in conversation. All the students used the correct silverware at the correct times, politely asked for refills, and cut and chewed like ladies and gentlemen.  

Shannen, Homero, Daniel, and Selene politely eating their first course. 

Mario, Averee, Colton, and Perla conversing over the main course.

 Already several students have had the chance to put their etiquette skills to practice in the ‘real world’ at their graduation receptions. It is so fun to see these kids blossom into fine young men and women.

Servers!!!

All of us B2B staff who participated that night. 

Some Favorite Things from Cancun

I went to the B2B ministry site in Cancun in the month of June. Here are a few pictures that capture the trip. I hope you enjoy them and that they inspire you to take a trip of your own. Praise Jesus for what He is doing in Cancun, Mexico. 

Students from Southbrook Church putting on a skit of David and Goliath for the kids at the San Jose Children's home. San Jose is a Catholic run home that has 12 girls and just 1 boy...

Myself, Jody Massey, and Luanne outside Casa Hogar Esperanza.... getting ready for a hamburger cookout with the kids and games! 

Here I am with Naomi in her home in Cancun. Naomi is native Mayan. She lives in a one room block house with several grandchildren and one great-grand baby. She makes a living by selling tamales on the street.  By the generosity of God and friends of mine we are currently constructing a house for Naomi and her family where they won't have to pay rent and where they will fit much better. (notice the hammocks in the background... these are common beds for the poor in Cancun.)  

The church in Tres Rios B2B is supporting. We were helping to pour a concrete floor in this church the week I was there. The church is located in one of the most impoverished communities just outside Cancun. 

Matt Cooper (Cancun director), myself, and Jody and Ryan Massey!

This is the sound system at the church in Tres Rios! I love how creative these people are. 

Smiling faces as we play games outside the Tres Rios church with children' from the community. 

Two of the littlest boys at the DIF children's home in Cancun. This is a government run children's home that B2B Cancun has had a relationship with since the beginning. 

Myself and my friend Teresa posing for a picture together! 

Two of Oti's children at a pizza and games restaurant. Oti is a women that B2B got connecting with through the DIF government program. Oti is a single mom of 8 kids and has some serious health needs. She was at the point of dropping her kids off at the local children's home when B2B came into the picture. Our goal is to help Oti with her needs so that she can continue to raise her kids in her home.... a much better option than an institution. 

A home in Tres Rios... similar to Rio1 in Monterrey where I work, but with a Cancun feel. 

Beautiful! 

My last day in Cancun with the Coopers and we went snorkeling in a nearby reef! 

A beautiful beach in Riviera Maya. 

Just gorgeous what God creates, hun? 

Huge drift wood! 

Good to be Back :)

It was so wonderful to be back in Ohio for a few weeks to visit with family and see many of you! Cheque and I were busy visiting, speaking at churches, hanging with family, and getting things ready for our wedding on October 30th! It was a busy few weeks, but soooo good to be home :)

We are now back in Monterrey, but here are a few pictures from our trip to Ohio! 

Joe, Laina, Cheque, Jon, Brooke, and myself having Auntie Anne's pretzels at a kiddie table in Cincinnati! 

Eating Skyline with friends and supporters the Jones in Oxford, OH! 

I was surprised to see my name on the sign outside my grandparents' church! Cheque and I had a wonderful Sunday sharing at Grace Pointe. 

Visiting with the Anderson family! 

Family dinner :) 

Cheque and his soon-to-be niece, Suzie! 

Cheque and I got a chance to visit friends at the Back2Back home office in Mason, OH. Behind us is the "Day in a Life of  an Orphan" photo exhibit. The purpose is to help bring about awareness of the orphan crisis. 

Me and my good friend, Jenn who surprised me and drove over 4 hours to come to my support raising event.  Thanks Jenn! 

Coming to Ohio!

Cheque and I are headed to the Cincinnati, Ohio area August 10th-29th. Our desire is to visit with friends, family, and ministry supporters :) We would love to see you!  

Mark your calendars for an Open House Thursday, August 25th from 7-9pm at my parent's house (909 S. Locust St., Oxford, OH). Cheque and I will be sharing stories from the summer and sharing about our future plans with Back2Back. We would love to see you there!

I'm Engaged!!!!

On July 3rd, 2011 Cheque Garcia asked me to marry him! He did a wonderful job of surprising me! We are officially ENGAGED and I am the happiest I have ever been in my life :)

Here is the story....

Cheque and I decided to hike the mountain behind the B2B property on our day off! We love hiking together :) In the picture above I am completely unaware of what the next few moments will hold :)

We came across a a really neat spring flowing out of a cliff wall into a pool! It was beautiful! It had just rained for a week so everything was so green. Here Cheque is playing it cool, before the big moment :) He did so well, I never had a clue it was coming! We ended up climbing the cliff where we had a beautiful view of the mountains and valley. 

The next thing I know Cheque is telling me how much he loves me... He pulls a ring out of nowhere and asks if I will marry him!!!!! All I could do was cry (as you will note in this photo)! I just sat there completely surprised. Cheque thought that maybe I didn't understand his question (because I couldn't answer) and asked me again in Spanish... I finally pulled myself together and gave him a huge hug and a huge YES!!!!

 My ring! This is a God-story too! I love it when God is involved even in the little stuff :)

Happy as can be! 

It is official and sometimes hard to believe it is really true! 

This is the view of the mountains and the valley where Cheque proposed. 

Cheque further surprised me by pulling a picnic lunch out of his backpack. He had brought our favorite treats! We had cheese, salami, bread... it was great! Cheers to the newly engaged!

I know, this really is the man I am going to marry!!!! Yay! He is a bit excited too, to say the least :) 

Shannen

This is my friend Shannen! She is a student in B2B’s Hope Program and lives just a few doors down from me on our property. Shannen and I meet each week to talk about life, dreams, school, family, and most importantly our Savior Jesus Christ. Shannen is  beautiful, deep, and honest. She has a heart sold out for Jesus and I SO enjoy the time I get to spend with her. We are currently working through a Bible study called Gospel Transformations. It rocked my world when I did it with our staff women, and I know Shannen is learning quite a bit as well! Praise God for Shannen who is already impacting the world for Christ! God has a mighty call on her life and I feel privileged to see a part of that.