Friday, December 7, 2012

A Quince Anos Affair

On November 18th, we celebrated the 15th birthdays of Priscila and Madisson from Manantial de Amor. In Mexican culture a Quince Anos (15th birthday party) is a BIG deal. It is basically a huge event that celebrates these girls leaving childhood and becoming young ladies. It is almost as important as a wedding to many young Mexican girls. 

We planned this day for months with trips to the dress shop, shoe shopping, making decorations, food preparation, and inviting guests. We celebrated with near 120 people! Priscila and Madisson told me that they wished the day didn't have to end... it was what they had always dreamed of :) 

Priscila

Madisson

Lalo Daniel escorting Priscila during the ceremony
Tradtionally each girls selects a chambalan (escort) to accompany her throughout the events of the day. Two of our Hope Program guys stepped up to the task. Both of these young men came to the Hope Program from MDA. 
Lalo escorting Madisson during the ceremony

Edgar, the MDA captain, did the service for the girls. 
 During the service, a message is given to encourage the girls to commit their lives and their purity to the Lord. They are presented with several symbolic gifts given to them by family or friends. Each gift (watch, pillow, ring, and Bible) have special significance in the ceremony and in their transition to adulthood.
The girls and I
I feel so blessed to have been able to help make this day uniquely special for these girls. Usually it is the family of the quinceanera (birthday girl) who puts on the whole event. These girls' families came and participated in a few ways, but it would have been very difficult for them financially to host the entire day for Madisson and Priscila. Praise Jesus for supporters through B2B who helped make these girls'childhood dreams come true. This day had the fingerprints of our Father all over it :) 

The totally transformed LDM!!!! Thanks B2B staff for all your help!

Place settings


Serving up lasagna

 Above is part of the SUPER awesome team of B2B staff who helped me pull this event off!!! I am deeply grateful for their creativity, love, and passion to make this day to be all it could for the girls.

Madisson with her b2b sponsors who came down to surprise her 

Madisson's family brought a traditional Mariachi band to play for the girls and guests. 

MDA girls enjoying the meal

Dancing!!!!

Monday, December 3, 2012

Bethany's First Book!

The International Book Fair came to Monterrey and we had the privileged of shopping for children's books for Casa Hogar Bethany. We were given a very generous donation from the Rotary Club with which we were able to purchase boxes of books for the kids! The library at Bethany is well underway. We are hopeful to have it up and running very soon :) Praise Jesus

David, the Bethany captain, holds up the first books purchased for the Bethany children's home!

Boxes of books for Bethany!

Lucia, my literacy partner, at the book fair. 

Friday, November 30, 2012

Esther House

This fall Cheque and I got our second chance to be substitute house parents for teens in the Hope Program :)  We were with the Esther House girls for two weeks while Cheque's parents went on vacation. Cooking for 10 people was quite different than cooking for two, but the girls pitched in and we got it done. God also provided several great moments to help us get to know the girls better. Enjoy the photos :) 

Preparing pizzas

Luisa can't wait!

Luisa and Marlen. Yum!!!

Paty and Luisa work on making hair flowers one night. 

The finished product :)

More hair flowers created by the girls. 

Our beautiful models :) 

Cheque in the kitchen

Family dinner
Pizza Esther House style!!!!

Monday, November 26, 2012

Rubi, Abraham, and Luis

These are three of my most favorite kids!!!! Rubi, Abraham, and Luis are siblings and live at Manantial de Amor children's home. Sadly they are the only kids at the home who don't get visits from family... or anyone for that matter. Cheque and I decided to "visit" them and let them know how incredibly special they are. These are pictures of our trip to the mall for new shoes!!!

Luis and Abraham wait to try on shoes

The guys :)
These boys are known to be a bit rambunctious at the children's home. We were kinda surprised when their behavior was AWESOME at the mall!!! It really made me see how important individual attention is. These kids need to feel special and unique, not just a part of the group. When they feel loved and not forgotten it shows.

Rubi, Luis, and Abraham with their new shoes. 

Ordering KFC... they each got to order exactly what they wanted!

Enjoying our food and fellowship
Please continue to pray for the hearts of these kids and the 163,000,000 other orphans in the world who also feel forgotten. We felt privileged to be able to minister Christ's love to these three kids and pray that it continues to make a difference in their lives. 



Friday, October 19, 2012

4 Days at MDA


I can honestly say that some of my favorite moments in these past few months took place while Cheque and I were staying out at MDA children's home for 4 days. What a blessing to be able to connect with the 28 kids who live there on a day-to-day basis. We got to live their lives with them for 96 hours; see what they see, eat what they eat, do what they do... it was a great week and helped us get to know each kid personally. 

Here are a few of my favorite snapshots from our 4 days at MDA. Hope you too can get a glimpse into the lives of these very special kids :) 

Valdemar eats his bean tostadas
We arrived on Sunday afternoon right after the MDA church service had ended. They welcomed Cheque and I in with a bean and crema tostada lunch.

Sinai praying for her food
We realized very quickly that feeding 28 kids and 7 workers each day can be expensive. With a small budget the cook, Juan, does an amazing job trying to get some sort of meat on the table each day. Most of our meals consisted of beans, eggs, tortillas, and hotdogs or bacon. One of our prayer requests for MDA is that the Lord would provide consistent donations of fruits and veggies for these kids.

Abraham and Israel air guitaring!
While I helped the older girls do chores around the cafeteria, some of the youngest guys air-guitared with Cheque :)
Petunia
This is Petunia, another resident at MDA. She lives in the garden out front and is a friendly pet for the kids. She looks big in this picture but actually she is about the size of a notecard.

Game time
The kids at MDA are very friendly, constantly wanting to have fun! Cheque and I brought several games with us to play with the kids. All ages joined in for game afternoon.

Ruben plans his move in Connect Four

The littlest boys starting a new game. 

Israel focusing to not make the tower fall!

Mama Coni and Abraham
Something I really love about MDA is the way that the workers relate to the children. I've worked for several years with B2B in a variety of children's homes in and around Monterrey. I've seen all sorts of ways that caregivers interact with the kids. At MDA the caregivers treat the kids with so much love and respect. Even when the kids get in trouble and have consequences, the caregivers make sure the kids understand that they still love them for who they are and remind the kids of who God has made them to be. It is truly beautiful and such a healthy place for these kids.

 In the above picture Mama Coni, the retired founder, is talking with Abraham. She noticed that he was having a hard day and pulled him aside to see what was going on . He told her that he felt like no one cared about him because he had gotten a scratch on his forehead and no one had asked if he was okay. Mama Coni heard this and immediately made the need known to Cheque. Cheque was able to take Abraham into our room and bandaged his scrape... having someone listen to him made all the difference.

Dayana
Dayana is the daughter of the cooks at MDA. She is so beautiful!

Ady Leslie washing dishes
Each day the kids have chores to do. This day Ady Leslie was responsible to wash the dinner dishes. The girls at MDA have a tradition: that you SING while washing dishes! Each night we heard the beautiful voice of a different girl in the kitchen :)

Chuy and Luis
Chuy and Luis are brothers and the newest members at MDA. They are still getting used to the rules and structure of a children's home. Pray for their transition and for Luis to learn to read.

Building a bonfire
The first night we were at MDA, we decided to have a marshmallow cookout with the kids. They loved it! As you can see Mexican boys love fire just as much as any other boys! We ended up having to make a line in the gravel to keep them from getting too close.

Boys and fire!


Abraham tends the fire

Hope and Coni, the director of MDA.
While the kids were at school Cheque and I took advantage of our time with the directors and caregivers. Here I am planning a quince anos with Coni for two of the girls at MDA.
Juan, the cook, helps his daughter with homework. 

Luis works on writing a letter to his B2B sponsor.
We also used some time at MDA, to help the kids write letters to their b2b sponsors. These sponsors send in money each month to help MDA cover basic expenses like food, water, electricity, etc. They also correspond through letters with a particular child at the home. Cheque and I would like to see more folks sponsor kids at MDA. It is a wonderful way to pour into a child from miles away. The two new boys, Luis and Chuy, ask me almost every time I'm there if I have found a sponsor for them yet. The kids love this special attention. Please let us know if you would be interested in sponsoring a child at MDA.

Birthday party!
We had the fun experience of celebrating Valdemar and Joel's birthdays while at MDA. The girls helped me make signs, blow up balloons, and decorate the cafeteria for the party!

Joel and Valdemar.. wanting to open their gifts!

Valdemar

Mayte and Madisson, sisters at MDA!

Ady Leslie

Jesus looking at the books I brought.
I brought with me a small box of books for the kids at MDA. They were such a hit! Before this, the kids only had very old encyclopedias and other ancient books to read. They were so excited about the brand new books. I gave a reading lesson to Jesus one afternoon using the books. Jesus has special needs and cannot read. He doesn't even currently go to school. He loved the books however. Please pray for his healing and for a school option to open up for him.

 Nohemi cleaning out books
This is Nohemi. She is the girl's caregiver and does a great job! Nohemi grew up at MDA and then felt that God was calling her back to serve. She and I spent one afternoon getting rid of all those old books to make room for new ones!
New books!

Special breakfast
Two mornings, while at MDA, the kids surprised us with a special breakfast. They came knocking at our door at 7:30am with these cookies, peanut butter, jelly, and hot water to make coffee all on a tray for us. There were probably about 10 kids outside our door so excited to surprise us with a special breakfast! Of course we shared with them :)
The youngest boys
The youngest boys line up in their uniforms to head out to school :) Such fun and handsome boys.

Off to school!
All the kids at MDA go to school in the afternoon. Here they are leaving for classes. 




Our week at MDA was so much fun! Cheque and I feel so thankful to have been able to spend four days with the kids and caregivers at MDA. We now feel like we have a much better understanding of who they are, what they need, and how we can help. We also got to know each kid  in a more personal way. We got to celebrate birthdays, go shopping for new shoes, roast marshmallow, help with homework, do chores, and live life together. We had a great time and are excited to continue ministering to the kids in this home!