Friday, November 30, 2012

Esther House

This fall Cheque and I got our second chance to be substitute house parents for teens in the Hope Program :)  We were with the Esther House girls for two weeks while Cheque's parents went on vacation. Cooking for 10 people was quite different than cooking for two, but the girls pitched in and we got it done. God also provided several great moments to help us get to know the girls better. Enjoy the photos :) 

Preparing pizzas

Luisa can't wait!

Luisa and Marlen. Yum!!!

Paty and Luisa work on making hair flowers one night. 

The finished product :)

More hair flowers created by the girls. 

Our beautiful models :) 

Cheque in the kitchen

Family dinner
Pizza Esther House style!!!!

Monday, November 26, 2012

Rubi, Abraham, and Luis

These are three of my most favorite kids!!!! Rubi, Abraham, and Luis are siblings and live at Manantial de Amor children's home. Sadly they are the only kids at the home who don't get visits from family... or anyone for that matter. Cheque and I decided to "visit" them and let them know how incredibly special they are. These are pictures of our trip to the mall for new shoes!!!

Luis and Abraham wait to try on shoes

The guys :)
These boys are known to be a bit rambunctious at the children's home. We were kinda surprised when their behavior was AWESOME at the mall!!! It really made me see how important individual attention is. These kids need to feel special and unique, not just a part of the group. When they feel loved and not forgotten it shows.

Rubi, Luis, and Abraham with their new shoes. 

Ordering KFC... they each got to order exactly what they wanted!

Enjoying our food and fellowship
Please continue to pray for the hearts of these kids and the 163,000,000 other orphans in the world who also feel forgotten. We felt privileged to be able to minister Christ's love to these three kids and pray that it continues to make a difference in their lives. 



Friday, October 19, 2012

4 Days at MDA


I can honestly say that some of my favorite moments in these past few months took place while Cheque and I were staying out at MDA children's home for 4 days. What a blessing to be able to connect with the 28 kids who live there on a day-to-day basis. We got to live their lives with them for 96 hours; see what they see, eat what they eat, do what they do... it was a great week and helped us get to know each kid personally. 

Here are a few of my favorite snapshots from our 4 days at MDA. Hope you too can get a glimpse into the lives of these very special kids :) 

Valdemar eats his bean tostadas
We arrived on Sunday afternoon right after the MDA church service had ended. They welcomed Cheque and I in with a bean and crema tostada lunch.

Sinai praying for her food
We realized very quickly that feeding 28 kids and 7 workers each day can be expensive. With a small budget the cook, Juan, does an amazing job trying to get some sort of meat on the table each day. Most of our meals consisted of beans, eggs, tortillas, and hotdogs or bacon. One of our prayer requests for MDA is that the Lord would provide consistent donations of fruits and veggies for these kids.

Abraham and Israel air guitaring!
While I helped the older girls do chores around the cafeteria, some of the youngest guys air-guitared with Cheque :)
Petunia
This is Petunia, another resident at MDA. She lives in the garden out front and is a friendly pet for the kids. She looks big in this picture but actually she is about the size of a notecard.

Game time
The kids at MDA are very friendly, constantly wanting to have fun! Cheque and I brought several games with us to play with the kids. All ages joined in for game afternoon.

Ruben plans his move in Connect Four

The littlest boys starting a new game. 

Israel focusing to not make the tower fall!

Mama Coni and Abraham
Something I really love about MDA is the way that the workers relate to the children. I've worked for several years with B2B in a variety of children's homes in and around Monterrey. I've seen all sorts of ways that caregivers interact with the kids. At MDA the caregivers treat the kids with so much love and respect. Even when the kids get in trouble and have consequences, the caregivers make sure the kids understand that they still love them for who they are and remind the kids of who God has made them to be. It is truly beautiful and such a healthy place for these kids.

 In the above picture Mama Coni, the retired founder, is talking with Abraham. She noticed that he was having a hard day and pulled him aside to see what was going on . He told her that he felt like no one cared about him because he had gotten a scratch on his forehead and no one had asked if he was okay. Mama Coni heard this and immediately made the need known to Cheque. Cheque was able to take Abraham into our room and bandaged his scrape... having someone listen to him made all the difference.

Dayana
Dayana is the daughter of the cooks at MDA. She is so beautiful!

Ady Leslie washing dishes
Each day the kids have chores to do. This day Ady Leslie was responsible to wash the dinner dishes. The girls at MDA have a tradition: that you SING while washing dishes! Each night we heard the beautiful voice of a different girl in the kitchen :)

Chuy and Luis
Chuy and Luis are brothers and the newest members at MDA. They are still getting used to the rules and structure of a children's home. Pray for their transition and for Luis to learn to read.

Building a bonfire
The first night we were at MDA, we decided to have a marshmallow cookout with the kids. They loved it! As you can see Mexican boys love fire just as much as any other boys! We ended up having to make a line in the gravel to keep them from getting too close.

Boys and fire!


Abraham tends the fire

Hope and Coni, the director of MDA.
While the kids were at school Cheque and I took advantage of our time with the directors and caregivers. Here I am planning a quince anos with Coni for two of the girls at MDA.
Juan, the cook, helps his daughter with homework. 

Luis works on writing a letter to his B2B sponsor.
We also used some time at MDA, to help the kids write letters to their b2b sponsors. These sponsors send in money each month to help MDA cover basic expenses like food, water, electricity, etc. They also correspond through letters with a particular child at the home. Cheque and I would like to see more folks sponsor kids at MDA. It is a wonderful way to pour into a child from miles away. The two new boys, Luis and Chuy, ask me almost every time I'm there if I have found a sponsor for them yet. The kids love this special attention. Please let us know if you would be interested in sponsoring a child at MDA.

Birthday party!
We had the fun experience of celebrating Valdemar and Joel's birthdays while at MDA. The girls helped me make signs, blow up balloons, and decorate the cafeteria for the party!

Joel and Valdemar.. wanting to open their gifts!

Valdemar

Mayte and Madisson, sisters at MDA!

Ady Leslie

Jesus looking at the books I brought.
I brought with me a small box of books for the kids at MDA. They were such a hit! Before this, the kids only had very old encyclopedias and other ancient books to read. They were so excited about the brand new books. I gave a reading lesson to Jesus one afternoon using the books. Jesus has special needs and cannot read. He doesn't even currently go to school. He loved the books however. Please pray for his healing and for a school option to open up for him.

 Nohemi cleaning out books
This is Nohemi. She is the girl's caregiver and does a great job! Nohemi grew up at MDA and then felt that God was calling her back to serve. She and I spent one afternoon getting rid of all those old books to make room for new ones!
New books!

Special breakfast
Two mornings, while at MDA, the kids surprised us with a special breakfast. They came knocking at our door at 7:30am with these cookies, peanut butter, jelly, and hot water to make coffee all on a tray for us. There were probably about 10 kids outside our door so excited to surprise us with a special breakfast! Of course we shared with them :)
The youngest boys
The youngest boys line up in their uniforms to head out to school :) Such fun and handsome boys.

Off to school!
All the kids at MDA go to school in the afternoon. Here they are leaving for classes. 




Our week at MDA was so much fun! Cheque and I feel so thankful to have been able to spend four days with the kids and caregivers at MDA. We now feel like we have a much better understanding of who they are, what they need, and how we can help. We also got to know each kid  in a more personal way. We got to celebrate birthdays, go shopping for new shoes, roast marshmallow, help with homework, do chores, and live life together. We had a great time and are excited to continue ministering to the kids in this home!

Saturday, September 15, 2012

Captains of Manantiel de Amor Children's Home

Cheque and I with Edgar and Connie, the directors of MDA
We want to update you on an important change in our roles with B2B. Cheque and I have accepted the role as B2B Captains of a children's home called Manantiel de Amor (MDA) which translated means "Spring of Love". This means that we are now B2B's main connection to this home. We are working closely with the directors of MDA, Edgar and Connie, to help support them in their ministry to the 30 kids who live there. We are responsible for many things such as handling donations for the home, seeking more sponsors for them, bringing teams to serve there, helping to meet the kids' needs of tutoring, braces, dental and doctors appointments, etc. Our job also includes the interesting details of helping to plan quince anos parties for several teenage girls in the home and helping with the construction of a new children's home for them. We are excited about this new role and all that God desires to teach us through it. We will still continue with our other responsibilities of mentoring, helping with groups that come down, and the literacy program however MDA will be a priority. 

We leave tomorrow to spend four days out at MDA with the directors and kids! We are excited to get to know them better and to learn how to better help meet their needs. We have all sorts of fun things planned from a bonfire to game night, but also desire to live life alongside them in their daily routine. Please pray for our time at MDA as we seek to build stronger relationships with the kids and workers in this home.

Enjoying a day at the park with the MDA kids

Summer Intern Outing

During the summer we had several fabulous interns come help us out at B2B Monterrey. These folks helped us keep things running with near to 100 guests each week :) On their last night with us we took them out for a little "Donation Room Designer" bowling. Each intern had to design an outfit for another using only items left over from the donation room. We had quite a blast! 

Our fabulous July interns

The brains behind the night!

Instead of bowling normal, each frame had a different handicap. In this frame the guys had to bowl backwards. 

All of us!

Cheque and I showing of our "once in a lifetime" outfits :)